There are plenty of opinions out there in which you may find yourself influenced by, but truthfully you should just do what feels right to you. When you present yourself in the community that you do, you do not have to follow the crowd; You be unique! But even so, if you find that you absolutely love a certain way of going about something that someone else does, don’t be afraid to do it your way! You don’t have to fit a certain aesthetic within a community, there are always a variety of people doing so many varying things!
If there are kittens out there that have a preference for not using toys in their headspace, that does not in any way, shape, or form mean that you absolutely should not! Your headspace is for you! You do what makes you happy!
There is no guidebook saying that you must do such and such thing to “fit in,” nor will there ever be!
On a similar note, when posting on your social media platform, you do not have to limit what you post to just what community you are in. You can post what makes you happy, whether that be cooking, art, etc. You show them what you enjoy, and just maybe someone in the same community will have the same interest and you will spark a friendship!
You do you, babes. And be fearless in what you share because it is apart of you, and sharing what you love is okay!